card house dreams.

And then she said she can't believe, genius only comes along in storms of fabled foreign tongues,

I'm a girl of seventeen who has many dreams and is finding her way.

I like
music,
cute things,
dancing,
dreaming,
being inspired,
crafts,
ramen noodles,
pretty smiles,
musicals,
makeup,
anything that sparkles,
tea,
the beach,
and I love this band called panic! at the disco.

This is my small space on the interwebs where I will share my feelings, hopes, and dreams; my way of channeling my thoughts and views of the world.
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Tripping eyes, and flooded lungs,

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Northern downpour sends its love. ♥

Can we all be nice please?

Sunday, February 7, 2010

I find it unbearably awful that something I so looked forward to was tainted with negativity almost as soon as it began. This week I was so excited to have a new semester begin full of fresh opportunity and experiences. I was also excited to finally have most of my friends all together at lunch. It seemed like it would be so fun to have everybody there so we could all be together in sharing the happy - and of course the not so happy - experiences that go along with lunch time at high school. I know I imagine everything just a tad more exciting and happy than they truly will be. I'll admit it is my nature to think everything will just be perfect and everyone will love each other and be friends, peace and love, peace and love, blah blah blah. But I really wasn't expecting them to be the polar opposite.

I don't understand why people feel the need to make up lies about others. Okay I get it if you lie about doing something you're not so proud of, lying about who ate the last cookie in the cookie jar - we all do it, but not lying about other people. Especially when they're one of the only people who can tolerate being in the same room as you and they try their hardest to not say anything when people are talking shit about you behind your back all the time. I would at least expect that person to try and be as nice as possible to that one person in order to keep at least a couple friends. Am I being unreasonable here?

I totally understand insecurity. I get it. We're all insecure about one thing or another. But to have insecurity rule your life to an extent where all you do is constantly think of ways to put other people down in order to make yourself look better? I don't see it. All you're doing is making a people not like you even more, thus leading to more insecurity. It's a vicious cycle and it's only going to get worse.

I'm telling you right now I'm not a mean person. I pick my battles. If any of you know me very well you'll know I don't like to get into arguments or petty fights with people. It's not my style. As I said before I'm a "peace and love" kind of person, I don't like drama; I find it immature on so many levels. I make it a personal goal of mine to be accepting of other people and their flaws because really, no one is perfect and you won't see eye to eye with everyone. But honestly there's only so much one person can take. I have let things slide for so many years!! There are certain things that get me upset. I'm human too. One of those things is when you make a false assumption, twist it into something not nice and then spread it around behind my back to try and turn some of my closest friends against me. I haven't done anything to you to make you do this so I do not understand why you would do something so mean to me. Plain and simple.

I'm not going to get into specifics or name any names here. But I will say this: be nice to other people and they will be nice to you. Kindness and honesty are the best policies. Going around spreading hate won't get you anywhere. You'll find yourself sad and lonely. Why on earth would you do that to yourself? There are so many problems in the world, why would you create yet another one?

Don't cause drama, cause smiles.
Don't make hate, make love, make art.
Instead of spreading gossip, go read a book.
Inspire others. Be beautiful.

Spreading bad thoughts, like telling people they are terrible, only cause more problems.
Spreading hate makes you a hateful person.
What goes around comes around.

Nice girls say nice things,
They do nice things,
And they think nice things.

xoxo

1 comments

1 Comments:

I love you chevalier, thats all.

dont ever change for anyone or anything. i love you just the way you are.

Petka

By with love, at February 13, 2010 at 11:55 AM